@Rmrsh 1984 I agree with you especially that the female is th one who takes the blame for a simple reason. Because she carries the baby and that gives her out whereas the male doesn't have any obvious sign of what he did or even has the advantage of refusing to take the responsibility. Therefore even if both the partners have equal responsibility the female has to be more careful before indulging in such an activity which might create problems for her. As they say the society still has the mentality that their boys are right and girls should take care. We all know that one can't clap with one hand.