Pornography videos

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  1. Alexandoy

    Alexandoy Well-Known Member

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    This is most common to young boys who share their mischief with each other. I have to admit that during my time, our trip are the girlie magazines that we borrow and lend among us. And for the younger generation now, I don't know how parents would curtail that mischief of the boys in watching pornographic videos. Considering that the internet is rife with almost anything under the bedsheet, I guess censorship is now a thing of the past.
     
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  2. Heatman

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    Truly it's one of the major trends in teenagers, kids, youths and including adults today. And the influencing factor to their partaking in this act is as a result of access to the Internet owing to technological advancements.

    Anyone of these children who happens to understand the use of phones and connection to the Internet broadband, would have all kinds of access to several porn materials online and this tends to negatively influence their view on sex and sex life in general.
    Censorship is a thing of the past now, the only way to control these kids from doing such is denying them access to Internet connection until they are mature enough to understand what they are getting themselves into.
     
  3. jhun padua

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    Now at our present times, it's easy for everyone to have access in the internet that even young boys/girls can do what an adult can do. They can easily visit web sites that promote pornography in just one click of their fingers, as a young boy/girl their sexual imagination starting to explore. Because of our advanced technology they have all the access without parents approval, and i think no matter what the parents can do to avoid their children to watch pornographic videos will never succeed, why? because parents cannot guard their children 24 hrs or all the time(just like my parents did to me ) UNLESS they will educate their children about this matter.
     
  4. harijobs

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    This has become a trend in today's younger generation which spoils them as it distracts them from concentrating on academics. I really didn't know what pleasure they are going to get in watching pornographic content but with the technological development and easy access to everything on the internet is spoiling children and teens and adults. This can be controlled by being allowing them to use the internet only when they are mature enough to know about certain things in life.
     
  5. Rock1987

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    Youngsters today have everything at their disposal. Now they don't need magazines. They can watch anything and everything they want on their computers and smartphones. I have seen children aged 13-14 years using smartphones for the wrong purpose. Even the parents have no control over their child. Parents must take certain steps to prevent their child watching porn at an early age.
     
  6. kamai

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    That is one reason I would be afraid for my child to have a phone with internet access so I think I will probably give my kid a phone only for emergencies. There is so much bad going on internet now a days that which oir kids can be exposed to. Not only can they be watching innapropriate things but they can also be lured un by innapropriate people.
     
  7. El Psy Congro

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    We can't really do anything about these videos. They are everywhere and prohibiting your child from these videos would not be enough to keep them from these.They'll meet other kids who have already seen these videos and could influence your child too. I guess the best parenting you could do is explain them thoroughly what are these and what does it mean to do such thing. It's all over the internet and unfortunately the internet could be easily access by your kids. I'd rather teach them these and its corresponding responsibilities so that if they ever encounter a video like this, they won't feel any lust and curiosity of doing it.
     
  8. KloeRinz

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    I think it helps if parents confront their children rather than deny them when bringing up these topics. If parents stop overreacting or ignoring pornographic content whenever kids ask, then they lose their chance to explain things properly. Furthermore, it helps if you give them a mature standpoint right away. Instead of those typical high school dick jokes which aren't even funny. Overall, you cannot hide it for life, but you can help a child learn maturely.
     
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    You make a strong point KhloeRinz. I believe ignorance is what causes teenagers to start looking for answers in the internet and eventually get hooked on porn. I will not pretend I know the exact solution to this issue but what I do know for a fact is that kids will always look to parents first to give them a little insight but when the parent shys off then the education window closes and it is now time for life to teach them what they want to know. It is not easy to address this issue but like most things with kids, you either have to choose between your pride and the well being of your kid don't you think?
     
  10. Jason76

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    Probably the only thing that can be done is to block porn from the computer. I mean, of course, teenage boys are going to want it; I know I would have been looking for it at their age :rolleyes: (The net didn't exist until I was 19.).
     
  11. tyche

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    First and foremost, parents should be open-minded enough to discuss sexual topics with their kids in order to be able to able to guide them properly. They can't control porn on the internet or their kids friends, so the most that they can do is to enlighten the child in an appropriate way when they ask them about sexual topics.
     
  12. tallulah

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    One of the best ways to curtail this is to first have a very serious but sincere talk with your kid about the dangers of porn. Most parents fail at this level. It's either they are not sure how to talk to their kids about stuff like sex or they just don't have that kind of relationship with that child. Another step to take would be to block all forms of adult entertainment from ALL devices in the home. I mean cellphones, tablets, PC and smart TV. If you are teaching your child not to watch porn, as a parent, you also don't have any business watching porn as well. Children do what you do, not what you say.
     
  13. Miches

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    Nowadays, you don't even have to give your child gadgets to be able to watch porn. Their classmates can have the gadget and show porn videos to other kids during breaks or after class. Kids react differently to porn. It can be shocking and interesting for children who may be seeing porn for the first time while it can be nothing to a child who have previous knowledge about it and the dangers of porn. I would prefer to orient pre-teens about porn and sex education at a level they can understand than allow other children to take that part and mislead them.
     
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    I remember finding a stack of porn magazines under my son's bed when he was a teenager but I think it's natural for teenagers to be interested in nudity and sex. I didn't really like him having them around because my daughter was 5 years younger than him and I thought she might be alarmed if she saw them.

    I never found any porn vids lying around so if he did watch any he did it at someone else's house. :eek:
     
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    I do agree about blocking sites not just from the computer. I think you can block any site from being accessed by your internet connection, though I do not know how to do that since I am not a tech geek. My cousin has kids who are around the age of 13 to 15, adult sites can't be accessed since he made it that way for kids not to mess up with things they shouldn't be checking out.
     
  16. amitkokiladitya

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    Everything has a correct age and so is the case with exposure to the porn world. If we willfully tell our kids about them, this will not mean they will not watch them secretively. Familiarity at the optimum age is justified. Moreover, application of family filter and checking browser history every now and then can help to keep a check.
     
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    There is very little anyone can do to stop them from visiting such sites. If the home tv has a locking arrangement they can easily get it elsewhere. The only way is for the sites concerned to raise the age for viewing.
     
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    Boys will be boys! :rolleyes:My husband sometimes tells me about the times when he used to live with his roomies when he was in college, how he and his friends used to scour bookshops for porn magazines and their escapades to rent such videos. Not many of both these were available and compared to the kind of stuff that is available now, it could hardly be called porn! But I think those experiences made him learn things and I think that would help a lot when our son comes of age! He would be the person to talk to my son in an appropriate manner about the topic. I know all boys are attracted to it and try to seek information about it in many different ways and I am dreading what and how it would happen!
     
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  19. Jason76

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    I think porn is a terrible addiction, and indeed, as one said on here, they don't know what they're getting into. I mean, boys will be boys, but we can't argue with science. It's saying that porn massively messes up the brain like cocaine or heroin. This is no joke.
     
  20. janemarie

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    There has to be a way to censor these things from children on the internet. In the shops, those kind of magazines are on the top shelf so children can't get to them. Parents can programme the computers to censor some websites but if a child wants to see porn, they will find a way to see it.
     
  21. Jason76

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    I'm sure a lot of parents have such low values they don't care and others are naive and think their weak protections aren't hacked.

    The idea of students (teenagers) looking at porn on cell phones sounds comical. However, I'm sure it's a real problem. I wonder how many get caught? But I think it's not a problem with college students cause they're more mature and the naughty forbidden aspect is gone.

    Anyway, I remember a student joking about an adult strip club in a high school - and everyone laughed. It was especially funny cause it had a funny name. :D

    There are plenty of computer programs to do the job, some free.
     
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    I think its really hard to stop them from doing that since they get addicted to porn.The best way is by teaching them on sexual education.And maybe telling them about self control and everything.
     
  23. Nocturnal Writer

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    I have read several religious magazines on how to control the youngsters of getting into reading and watching nude and lewd materials.

    The kids should be educated about the ill effects of dirty talk, reading materials and watching sex videos. They should be monitored. Parents shouldn't lax on them. A consistent follow up should be strictly done by their parents.
     

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