Becoming a Surrogate

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  1. Rossy303

    Rossy303 New Member

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    Becoming a surrogate mother is a generous and noble thing. Well, some people are interested in becoming a surrogate to bless the less fortune women with the gift of parenthood. Others consider this noble act due to the financial benefits associated with it. It is important to visit a fertility institution to see you through your journey till the day you deliver your bundle of joy.
     
  2. Alexandoy

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    I agree that being a surrogate is a noble thing because it is no joke to carry the baby in your womb for 9 months that later would be taken away from you. But I know of some surrogate mothers who enjoy doing that for the money that is paid to them. When we were having difficulty in getting pregnant (my wife's ovary were hyperactive) we were advised to go for a surrogate pregnancy. But we didn't pursue that idea.
     
  3. Nocturnal Writer

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    The role of a surrogate mother is challenging. It takes the great courage to play a substitute biological mother and then give the baby after birth to his or her real parents.

    I don't if those surrogates are doing that for money or what not. However, the point is to give the baby to be born and to see the world out of love, care and sacrifice of others.
     
  4. tyche

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    It's a noble thing if you do it for free, and I salute those women, but if they do it because they will get paid, then it's not such a noble thing anymore.
     
  5. Hova

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    You can't take care of the pregnancy without money. Also, you are going to need that money after you deliver the baby for a other things I'm sure.
     
  6. Maestro

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    In this economy, you can't afford not to get paid. You can't live like a hobo when you are pregnant. It is only fair that you at least get compensated for the nine months you will be carrying the baby.
     
  7. Alexandoy

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    The latest known surrogate mother was the woman who gave birth to the twins of a former senator and lady broadcaster. Admittedly they are both past the age of child-bearing although they said they have the eggs and the sperm in the bank that they deposited when they were younger. So all they needed was the mother. They have twins and I think they are proud of it. For sure the surrogate mother was well paid since the father is very wealthy.
     
  8. Hova

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    I actually get the point that @Rossy303 is trying to put across. While being a surrogate mother is the most honorable act that a human can do, some abuse this gift.

    There women that get pregnant and then sell the baby like a commodity. To them, this is only but a business.
     
  9. James McAllister

    James McAllister Kinacle Employee Staff Member

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    I see no shame in wanting to get paid for what is obviously an enormous service. It affects their entire life for quite a while, of course.

    Surely that are some that are only after the money but from my limited experience, this isn't often the case. Surrogates are screened pretty intensly before they're allowed to work with clinics and most that I've talked to have signed up for emotional and pure-hearted reasons, often more so than just the cash.
     
  10. Hova

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    I'm talking from experience too. I know a woman who has done this all her life, or at least all my life. She finds someone who is need of a child, they negotiate secretly, and then she gets pregnant. She then heads to the countryside and only comes back after she has had the baby.

    After she gets paid, she comes back to the city and pretends like nothing ever happened. She has been doing this for quite a while and made a ton of money while at it. I just hope she does it for the right reasons, and not just for the money!
     

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